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Is Guilt Holding You Back from True Love and Freedom?
Guilt can feel like a heavy burden.
It makes us doubt ourselves, our actions, and even our deepest desires.
When it comes to love, guilt becomes even more complicated—especially when a “third party” is involved.
Let’s explore what it means to feel guilty in relationships, especially when societal expectations are at play.
Discover how freedom plays a key role in pure and honest love.
In relationships, the term “third party” is often used to describe someone new disrupting an existing bond. But is that always true?
Imagine two people in a relationship or marriage, bound by shared commitments: a home, children, or work.
What if one of them develops feelings for someone else, or the love between them changes?
Is the new love really the “third party”?
Or is the old bond, which no longer nourishes them, the real “third party”?
People often feel guilty when love changes.
But life—and love—is always in motion.
Being in a relationship first doesn’t guarantee it will last forever.
Relationships are not static—they grow, change, and sometimes come to an end.
Holding onto guilt keeps us trapped in situations that no longer reflect true love.
This is one of the most challenging situations. Imagine falling in love with someone who is still married.
You might feel guilty for desiring them.
You think your feelings are wrong or that you’re disrupting their life.
You might even unconsciously blame yourself, affecting your self-worth and self-love.
But guilt doesn’t change the love you feel.
And it doesn’t change their feelings either.
If someone’s heart is with you, but they stay in a marriage, that is not your fault.
Love is not something we control;
it’s something we experience.
Guilt often stems from societal judgments or internalized beliefs we’ve been taught.
It arises when we think we’re doing something “wrong.”
But who decides what’s right or wrong when it comes to love?
Ask yourself this:
Would you want someone to sacrifice their true happiness, even if it’s not with you?
If someone stays in a marriage out of guilt, habit, or fear, are they being honest with themselves—or their partner?
Manifesting love isn’t about taking something from someone else.
It’s about creating a space where love can grow authentically.
Someone is married but feels deeply connected to you.
They constantly think about you, while their current relationship lacks the love and passion it once had.
Would you want them to stay in a marriage where they feel trapped, just to avoid guilt?
Would you want to be in a relationship where your partner constantly thinks about someone else? Of course not.
True love cannot thrive in the shadow of guilt.
It requires respect, space, and freedom.
Our Freedom Module helps people shift from guilt to making choices based on harmony.
A student shared their experience:
“I feel truly free after these webinars.
Everything flows more easily.
I’ve let go of fear and am living my life.
My twin flame and I now make choices from freedom, not fear or expectations.
It has brought us closer together. Thank you for this.”
Freedom doesn’t mean acting recklessly or without care.
It means choosing love and connection without fear of judgment.
Guilt is often rooted in fear:
But guilt keeps us stuck in the past.
It tells us that wanting more is wrong.
But growth and change are natural parts of life.
If you’re manifesting love with someone who is married, it’s not about “stealing” them.
It’s about recognizing that their current situation may no longer reflect their true desires.
Would you want them to stay in a situation where their heart is not fully present?
These are not easy questions, but they are necessary if you want to release guilt and experience true love.
You are free to feel, think, and create the life you love and deserve.
Love is nothing to feel guilty about.
It’s a force that leads us to what is real and meaningful—for you and for others.
A student from the Freedom Module shared:
“I enjoy life more now.
I make choices from strength, not expectations.”
This is what the power of freedom can give you:
Many people stay in relationships because of:
Consider the long-term impact:
Choosing freedom allows everyone involved to find their true path.
You free not only yourself but also them.
If you feel guilty about loving someone who is married, remember:
The most important things are:
True love creates space for growth and healing—never for destruction.
What are your key takeaways? Share them in the comments below:
This is the kind of relationship you deserve.
For deeper insights, check out the Freedom Module.
This week, I recorded the first webinar of our Year 2 course: Wishes Come True.
It’s about unconditional love and how your wishes can come true. Join me there!
I hope this video helps and guides you toward a meaningful relationship.
Bye for now, and see you next time! 😊
Twin soul school is a school for ‘regular’ twin souls: Spiritual but also down to earth.
2 Responses
It’s a very good text. I don´t experience in my case the guilt of breaking a marriage, I did in the past not anymore.
Now I am experiencing guilt of expending because of fear of lack, of not being able to manifest more and I want to do it by myself despite my husband gives me everything I desire I want to be secure in knowing I also can do it everything or even more by myself.
Ik voel me helemaal niet schuldig, maar mijn tz misschien wel. Maar ik kan daar niet mee zitten. Waarschijnlijk voelt hij zich schuldig tegenover zijn huidige partner omdat, als hij er een punt achter zou zetten, dat de 2e scheiding zou zijn. Ook daar zit ik niet mee. Ik heb mezelf vorig jaar toestemming gegeven voor mijn gevoelens uit te komen nadat ik ze jaren had genegeerd omdat ik dacht dat hij onbereikbaar zou zijn en blijven terwijl ik in zijn ogen altijd zijn liefde voor mij zag. Hij had ook altijd alleen maar oog voor mij als we elkaar zagen 🙂 Wel zie ik geregeld het beeld voor me van zijn ogen waarin ik verdriet zag toen ik een pakket afleverde bij hem. Het is dan wel meer dan 20 jaar geleden maar toch….Alleen kon ik er toen niets mee en ik wist ook niet dat we tz zijn.